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Resolved in 2019: Living My Best Life

Orange Beach, AL

I often see the phrase “living my best life” on social media. It’s one of those things that I always take with a grain of salt. After all, social media is most often not an accurate reflection of real life. Still, that phrase kept echoing in my head as 2018 came to a close and I started thinking about the new year ahead.

Last year was a good year for me in a lot of ways. In April, I received a promotion at work. This was huge for me because there were certain aspects of my old position that I really loved, but some things that I didn’t. My new position allows me to do more of those pieces I enjoy and I think it plays to my strengths and career goals. I also started in an accelerated master’s program and will have my degree by the end of 2019.

Creed The Office

I traveled more in 2018 than I have previously. My new position includes quite a bit of travel, though it’s not exactly to exciting places. I’ve still been able, however, to make the most of those business trips by seeking out new adventures and meeting new people. I went to Gulf Shores with friends in August. I also took a trip to visit family in Nashville, which is one of my favorite destinations.

Orange Beach, AL

Orange Beach, AL

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.” – Helen Keller

Another big accomplishment was when I started working on a path to owning my own home in 2018, purchasing a tiny house shell. This has become a very long process, but I can’t complain. I knew when I started this journey that it would take time.

Tiny House Interior

Overall, 2018 was a pretty good year. I was happy and enjoying my life. But was I living my best life? Definitely not.

“Your success and happiness lies in you. Resolve to keep happy, and your joy and you shall form an invincible host against difficulties.” – Helen Keller

In the shuffle of everything going on last year, I really lost sight of myself. I stopped taking care of the little things and stopped listening to my body. Instead, I focuses on forging ahead, no matter how exhausted I felt. I gained weight. I had more migraines than usual, likely from stress. I was tired all the time, and just generally felt overdone and unwell.

For 2019, I’m resolved to actually living my best life. For me, that doesn’t mean glitzy parties, expensive vacations, and lots of activities. Living my best life is about listening to my inner voice, taking care of myself, and knowing when enough is enough.

I hope you’ll follow along on my journey.

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Fashion, Self-Care

A $10 Dress Brightened My Day

Walmart Dress

Shopping for clothes has never been my favorite activity. Most retailers don’t offer plus sizes lines, and often those that do only sell them online. Local options are even more limited. There are a few places in the nearby malls to buy clothing, but many of those seem to stock items better suited to older more mature women. I’m just not ready to start dressing in ugly prints and polyester stretch pants!

Because of the lack of variety, online shopping has always been the way I acquire the majority of my clothes. I’ve been a size 24 for over 10 years, so I’ve gotten a good handle on sizing for the online retailers I frequent. I know I’m a 1x in Full Beauty brands. I know I’m a size 3 at Torrid. I know to size down at Asos, putting me in their size 22. I know which cuts of jeans at Old Navy fit me best. The problem is that I’m no longer a size 24…and clothing shopping has become a nightmare!

Retailers generally offer measurements to guide sizing, but those usually leave me scratching my head. I’m not sure how to handle a guideline that tells me I wear 4 different sizes, especially when some of those sizes are larger than I wore before I starting losing weight. For instance, one retailer says that according to measurements, I should be wearing a size 28 in their jeans, but I have those same jeans in a size 22 (purchased a couple months ago) and they are starting to feel loose. What a confusing mess!

I have had some luck simply sizing down, but even that is a hit and miss option. Doing returns for online stuff can get expensive, as not all retailers offer free returns. It can take several weeks to get a return processed, meaning the money I spent is in limbo during that time. When doing an exchange for a different size, things often sell out and I’m left with nothing. Given all this craziness, I’ve been forced to resort to nearby stores.

ladies' wear walmart

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